Let’s be honest friend.
There are 3 things that can happen.
I wish you never left the 1st stage.
But the 1 or 2 serious individuals that are reading this may reach the 3rd stage.
UNCONDITIONED
You were once free FROM self-improvement.
A beautiful unconditioned human being.
Someone who was at peace.
You didn’t try to improve at puzzling, did you?
Or improve at playing with your toys, HAHA.
Isn’t it funny?
You’ve changed so much my friend.
You improved at so many things (*without sarcasm).
Your life is so much better, right? (*with sarcasm)
Because you improved.
Of course, it’s better.
You IMPROVED!
Or is it?
It reminds me of a quote from Muhammad Ali:
“I only start counting when it starts hurting because they’re the only ones that count.”
So what are you counting?
The pages you read?
The minutes of meditation?
OR the time it will take you to get what you truly want in life?
Exposure is extremely powerful.
Not just the friends around you.
Not just the things people say.
Not even the things they IMPLY (without words).
It goes as far as everything and anything in your environment.
Even the weights in the gym.
Are limiting your potential.
Because they only go up so much.
Do you see why?
If everything around you is made for the average human being.
If the weights go up to 50kg, because the average ‘Gymshark’ does 25kg.
You are put inside an invisible box.
Where only the true seeker escapes from.
Self Improvement may get you to improve from 25kg to 50kg in 5 years.
But you will never get to 200kg.
NEVER.
Do you accept that?
CONDITIONED
Right now you probably BELIEVE that self-improvement is ‘good’ for you.
I’m not saying self development is bad.
This isn’t the question.
And my opinion doesn’t matter.
Nobody’s opinion should matter to you.
Question everything for yourself.
And find out what is true.
Let’s speak the truth.
You have been conditioned to believe self-improvement is ‘good’ for you.
After all, if EVEN your biggest idols imply all the ‘stuff’’ is ‘good’ for you…
Correct?
Do you have the fundamental belief that improving at things is good?
That you are ‘better’ than others if you go to the gym, eat healthy, have more habits, read books, meditate, practice martial arts, become a millionaire, have a wife, or two, build a family, have kids, build a business, sell your company, do I need to continue?
You believe all these things are good right?
Please think for yourself.
DISCLAIMER: I am a conditioned individual like you.
I am not ‘better’ than you.
I have not mastered life yet.
I may have made some realizations that are absolutely true.
But never ‘believe’ them.
As beliefs will always be beliefs.
Self-experimentation is the way for the serious person.
So the unserious person may stop reading here (*and probably already left)
Do you think Miyamoto Musashi was improving his ‘sword skills’?
Do you think Miyamoto Musashi lived in isolation in the forests to improve his stoicism?
If you keep trying to improve, you may improve.
This is true.
You probably improve a bit.
But you will spend your whole life trying to improve.
Improve a centimeter here and a gram over there.
Why IMPROVE, my friend?
If you truly realize that you are a sinking ship.
That your body is burning down in real time.
Wouldn’t you feel the urgency?
Would you really meditate?
Do you realize you are trying to improve a dying person?
And when you are asking this you may as well ask:
“Why do I want to improve?”
Are you reading to become rich?
Or are you just becoming a better reader?
Are you practicing Martial Arts to become the greatest fighter?
Or fighting so you can show & tell others?
Are you meditating to find peace?
Or are you just becoming a better meditator?
Why are you doing all of this, friend?
If you don’t know the answer.
You may, FOR ONCE, stop distracting yourself with bla bla, whooh whooh.
And use the limited time you have on this earth, to ask yourself:
“WHAT DO I WANT?”
Really.
Not searching on YouTube to find ‘tips’ on how to find your purpose.
Not typing on Google for a technique to answer this question.
But question it, for yourself, by yourself, until you find the answer.
And even then, keep the question alive.
So you stop wasting your time.
Stop wasting your life.
And live in a state of:
SELF PERFECTION.
Instead of this self development bullsh!t.
And even the Self in the word Self-Perfection isn’t true.
But that is a topic for another letter.
By the way, I am Jordan, 23 yrs old, did over $4M in Revenue,
Hired over 50 people and making videos on YouTube since 2012.
Currently I am growing my personal brand through writing, art & film.
Which will help me remove the ‘need’ for money with little waste of time, because I hit 2 birds with 1 stone.
Self-Mastery & Financial Freedom are the birds.
My creation process is the stone.
I share this because you have been conditioned to care about numbers and appearance.
But the truth is that it is effectiveness > appearance that works.
Self Improvement is just nice to talk about.
Self Improvement boosts your ego.
Effective is:
When you get out of life, what you WANT.
So:
WHAT
DO
YOU
WANT
?
TOTAL FREEDOM
The last stage is the realization that it is all a lie.
That everything in your life is a lie.
From self-improvement to going to the gym, to becoming successful, to thinking it is good to listen to podcasts, and even the fundamental belief that you should have kids, is a LIE.
But it will do you no good to believe me.
You are here alone.
Nobody can help you.
Nobody has helped you.
You’ve done everything yourself.
You got what you wanted.
If you think you didn’t get what you wanted, you didn’t really want it.
And what you think you want, isn’t what you want yourself.
Even the identity of the person you call ‘yourself’ is a myth.
This is true for 99,99999% who are reading this:
Everything is a lie.
Just like the people in the 17th century believed the earth was flat.
99% of the things you believe today are lies.
Find out for yourself.
Don’t believe my words, or you fall for the same trap.
If you don’t ask yourself after reading this, you aren’t stupid.
You are just unserious.
Like everyone in this world.
Even the people you look up to most.
People I cannot name, for they are HOLY in your head.
They can’t be touched.
Even THEY are unserious.
They may have a lot of money.
They may have a lot of ‘success’.
But do they have TOTAL FREEDOM?
Will they ever get out of life what they REALLY wanted?
Will you ask yourself?
Will you ever find the answer?
Talk soon
Jordan
Improving a d*ing person (a poem)
Unconditioned, ah, what a state to be,
Before the world came and conditioned thee.
A child at play, no need to improve,
No chains of self-betterment to prove.
As we wander into the conditioned zone,
Where your beliefs are etched in stone.
Even the idols you hold in high esteem,
Are trapped in the same illusory dream.
Do we really desire all that we chase?
Or is this just the same old rat race?
You’ve done it all, didn’t you?
Mediation, Reading, all the Succes Habits.
“I AM SUCCESFUL”, or so you thought,
But did you get what you TRULY sought?
Why improve, my friend, if we’re all sinking?
In a world where people with TRUE peace is shrinking.
TOTAL Freedom awaits for those who dare,
To question, to seek, to become:
AWARE.
Full message here (when released):
https://youtu.be/oMYMCPHfsvc
If you want to work personally with me one-on-one, physically, or virtually, then you can email me ([email protected]).
But I only work with someone to whom money is not a problem and who is serious.