Stop watching Andrew Tate.
Or better said…
Stop exposing yourself to Andrew Tate.
That is the title of my letter.
It is easy to defend yourself against a crocodile in front of you.
It is impossible to defend yourself against a snake camouflaged next to you.
I wrote a poem, here it is…
Stop watching Andrew Tate, it must be said,
In his words, limitations spread.
You become what you expose yourself to,
Choose with care, for it shapes what you pursue.
External desires may cloud your sight,
Riches, fame, a fleeting flight.
Beliefs imposed on you, a dangerous game,
Straying from your essence, your internal flame.
So question, ponder, seek your truth,
In the silent depths, where mastery takes root.
That is the essence of this letter.
If you understood everything that I meant, then you don’t have to read further.
To the one who doesn’t:
Disclaimer: don’t believe anything of what I say next.
The title is way too prescriptive and you shouldn’t do anything because of me.
The only thing that could save you is an understanding from within yourself.
So let me share why I stopped watching Andrew Tate myself.
Every other human being will limit you.
It might befit you to read that again.
A human being becomes what he exposes himself to.
You become the average of the five influencers you spend the most time with.
So if you expose yourself to Andrew Tate long enough and believe most of the things he says, and you start working ‘hard’, you have a high chance of becoming a rich individual smoking cigars in his Dubai mansion with 27 supercars and 4 wives.
“What is bad about that, Jordan!?”, you may ask.
NOTHING.
There is nothing ‘bad’ nor ‘good’ about that.
That’s not the question.
The question is…
“What could you’ve become if you never exposed yourself to others?”
You see…you think you want to become rich and have Ferraris, Lamborghini’s, Jets, and yachts.
I had that too…
By the way, I am Jordan, did $4M in Revenue, hired over 45 people, started making videos in 2012 and I am showing you how I grow my personal brand, achieve financial freedom, and find peace in my life.
And I wanted all those things too.
But don’t you see these things are not the things ‘you’ want?
Would you ever think about them if you were the only human on earth?
I know I take it to an extreme, but my point is valid.
This is the truth:
You want to be rich.
You want to ‘improve’.
You want to be ‘loved’.
For EXTERNAL reasons.
Everything you do and everything you have ever done is for external motives.
You even smile at others, so you may receive a smile back.
Don’t believe me.
Just ask yourself:
“Would I want a supercar if it decreased my status in society?”
Now your mind may come up with a reason to justify its ulterior motives.
It may say: “yeah, but I like that adrenaline feeling when driving fast, isn’t that internal?”
All I ask is this:
“Would you want a supercar if it decreased your status in society?”
By watching Andrew Tate you believe in good and bad.
🟢 It is good to become rich.
🔴 It is bad to be broke.
🟢 It is good to smoke cigars.
🔴 It is bad to do ice baths.
🟢 It is good to have kids.
🔴 It is bad to live in the US.
These beliefs will lead you astray.
Not because they are not true, nor because they are wrong.
Because they are not YOURS.
Any ‘beliefs’ are just that ‘beliefs’.
The only thing that works in this world is:
RADICAL SELF-EXPERIMENTATION
So by all means, keep watching videos from Andrew Tate or anyone else.
Just ask yourself:
“Did that give me what I wanted?”
And if yes, “Is that what I wanted all along?”
The natural question that may arise right now is…
“What do I actually want?”
That person is ready to start walking his own path.
That person is ready to wake up.
Could it be that you are asleep but believe to be awake?
Believe to be improving your life?
Believe to be escaping from the matrix?
But are just asleep like everyone else, just in a different bed than before?
I will get a lot of hate for writing this post.
Mostly from people who don’t understand the core of my message.
Mostly from people who saw the title of this letter.
This is all okay.
I’ve learned that Anger from other people towards you is usually self-conflict or their lack of understanding of their own mind.
Therefore it has nothing to do with me and everything to do with themselves.
I am not talking to them.
I am talking to the one who just began to understand the following:
Exposure is extremely dangerous.
Exposure is extremely powerful.
Use the power wisely.
This must be understood.
With a Crocodile in sight, defense is a breeze,
But a hidden snake comes with unseen unease.
The crocodile might be the forbidden fruit from Adam & Eve.
But the snake might be a daily fruit you eat without thinking twice.
The snakes are the podcasts of people that you think are ‘good’ for you.
“Should I stop watching all videos and podcasts?”, may be the question that arises.
My answer: you shouldn’t do anything.
I still watch podcasts or videos of experts in their field.
But I pay very, VERY close attention to the words they speak.
As soon as they speak outside their expertise, I put my guard up.
I block myself from the exposure.
Because I understand it is only limitations put on me when someone doesn’t speak about their mastery.
Do you realize?
This is my approach.
Know that it is a difficult approach.
Because I have to be constantly aware of the words spoken and if they are helpful in my pursuit of mastery or limiting.
If they are about what they themselves have truly mastered.
Or if they are nonsense and just a selfish pursuit to gain status or a better feeling about themselves.
Most people only care about their appearance
Once again, don’t believe me.
Why do all the CEOs of Fortune 500 companies talk positively all the time about their companies even if they are on the brink of bankruptcy?
Humans care about appearance > effectiveness,
But it is effectiveness > appearance that matters.
So if the question is, will you become successful?
By the standards Andrew Tate sets.
The answer is likely to be yes if you follow his advice.
My question is:
Is that what you really want yourself?
If you get out of life what you truly wanted for yourself…
…then that is effective
…then that is perfection
That is everything.
The one who understands that every human will lead you astray will naturally stop consuming YouTube and exploring for himself without any effort or 7-step plan needed.
To this person, I wrote this letter.
All the others may leave hate comments or continue smoking cigars.
And it must be said, that I don’t imply that smoking cigars is bad or good.
It is just that it is being done, not because of an internal desire, but an external need.
And that will never lead to peace.
And lastly…
Don’t believe my words, don’t follow blind,
Seek your own truth, in the depths of your mind.
So ask yourself, what truly drives,
Beneath the surface, where passion thrives.
Talk soon.
Jordan
PS: I made a video about it here:
