“Focus on pleasure
And you forget the freedom you lost”
The fastest way to get behind everyone in your life,
Is to see it this way.
To look around you,
And compare.
Compare yourself with your family.
Compare yourself with your friends.
Compare yourself with Iman Gadzhi.
Compare yourself with Kylie Jenner.
By the way, I am Jordan, 23 yrs old, did over $4M in Revenue,
Hired over 50 people and make videos on YouTube since 2012.
I share this because you have been conditioned to care about numbers and appearance.
But the truth is that it is effectiveness > appearance what works.
So what is effective?
Start comparing the materialistic wealth you LACK with the stuff they have.
And even better, make sure you BELIEVE you want the stuff they have.
So you create an enormous feeling of inadequacy.
Right?
You want to feel as soon as possible that you lack things you are SUPPOSED to have.
And since everything is ‘made up’.
Since everything is only real in your mind.
You want to feed your mind with false beliefs.
So it can dramatize it, like your mind always does.
It LOVES drama, isn’t it?
Because it loves drama,
Let’s scroll on Instagram and see the ‘perfect lives’.
Let’s call your mother and ask her what you should be doing and should get.
And let’s also Google, what is ‘NORMAL’ to possess at your age.
Because then you can compare yourself and increase this feeling that you are behind.
How can you feel even more behind?
I am asking you.
Take time to see for yourself.
What made you feel behind in life?
Find the root.
Create understanding.
Where does this feeling come from?
What is the source of this belief of “I am behind”?
Is it yours?
Did you have this feeling when you were a kid?
You are unserious if you believe me.
You are serious if you ask yourself.
When did you start to feel this way?
Why do you even want to feel ahead in life?
Is it because you care about the opinions of others?
So they can judge you on your possessions and say:
“You are ahead, you have my approval!”
This is what you want, isn’t it?
Think about it…
Would you feel behind in life if you were living in this world only with your mother?
I assume not.
So other people play a significant role in how you feel, correct?
DO
YOU
ACCEPT
THAT
?
That for the rest of your life, other people DECIDE how you feel.
Do you accept that my friend?
The one who is serious about feeling behind as soon as possible,
Knocks his/her head right now,
Says ‘YES’.
And goes back to
…scrolling on social media,
…comparing with others,
…listening to family & friends’ expectations,
…and injecting these expectations into their blood,
So you no longer have to think about increasing this feeling, it just all happens subconsciously.
I hope you are serious about this.
Because I just gave you one of the secrets of how to get to this desired state.
What are some other ways to feel behind 99% of people?
Maybe you should believe everything you read, see & hear?
Especially from the people you look up to, so there is little doubt.
After all they are more ‘succesful’ than you.
And they also KNOW exactly how they got what they got.
And they always SHARE the things that will work for you.
Right?
We also want to consume lots of content.
Especially self-improvement video’s and podcasts.
This will make us feel that we are not ‘yet’ where we ‘need’ to be.
And that we only need to ‘improve’ a bit to get what we want.
It will also help you increase this belief that ‘improvement’ is good for you.
And that as long as you are ‘improving’, you can feel good.
Increasing your daily mediation from 10 to 15 minutes is good, right?
Working out 5 times a week compared to 4 times last week is better right?
I’m asking you.
If your answer is yes, let’s make sure we STOP meditating.
And STOP working out.
So we feel completely behind everyone.
So we stop ‘improving’.
So you can sit down with all the time you have,
And ask yourself some honest questions,
Of why you feel this way.
DON’T do this.
DISTRACT yourself.
Please…
We are trying to find out a method to feel more behind in life than we’ve ever felt.
Don’t sit down in the quiet of your room and ask yourself where this feeling arises from.
This might make it go away.
Do not try to understand.
You want to make sure this inner voice keeps talking.
And that we feed it with more and more and more inadequate beliefs.
We want this all happening in the background (on a subconscious level).
So we don’t notice it and it can keep going.
Like the snowball effect.
Do NOT ask why.
Do NOT ask where.
Do NOT ask.
Just LISTEN.
Listen to all the things this inner voice is projecting to you as if it is your own voice.
THIS is how we ruin our life fast.
THIS is how we feel behind 99% of people.
If you start today, you might feel this way in less than 6 months.
I hope you find an accountability partner who also wants to feel behind in life.
And I hope you include my methods in your morning routine.
Only the serious person may check the show notes.
And to the unserious, here’s my poem about the essence of it all.
Because you love to be entertained & distracted while not asking yourself the important questions, don’t you?
How feel behind in life (a poem)
How to feel behind of people?
How to ruin your life fast,
Create a mind so feeble?
In seeking lack, in craving wants,
We build a prison, that hurts that haunts.
For what is normal, what is right?
In this relentless, endless fight
To be ahead, to lead the pack,
To satisfy this oh so lack.
But pause, my friend, and ask your soul,
Does comparing and wanting more ever gets me whole?
Does it come from within my core,
Or from the world’s relentless roar?
Do you accept, with heavy heart,
That OTHERS hold your crucial part,
In shaping how you view your worth,
In this grand theater on earth.
If YES, than scroll, compare, and amplify,
The feeling of falling shy.
For in distraction lies the key,
To feeling less than you could be.
Don’t you see that in the race to not fall behind,
You lose yourself, your peace of mind?
You can watch the full video here:
PS: If you try to find the truth in a specific situation in your own life, but can’t seem to find it.
Then you can send me an email at [email protected] or DM me on social.
I don’t ask for money, but only respond to serious people.
